I’m looking for the girl I used to be.
When we’d been married for about 5-6 years, my husband confessed he’d been secretly addicted to pornography the entire time. I was completely floored. I had no idea this was happening. And what’s more, I had no idea what to DO about it. He’d told me he was taking care of it an didn’t want to discuss it. I felt like my whole world had imploded. And I felt completely alone.
I spent the next few years focusing on HIM. I thought if HE could just get HIS addiction under control, then I’D be fine, right? After all, 12-step meetings are all for addicts. And therapists are for the people struggling. And I was fine (mostly).
I wasn’t aware of it, but his addiction was silently running my life. It controlled what I weighed, whether or not I went on a trip, whether or not I made dinner, had the kids ready for bed when he came home, and whether or not I felt connected to him sexually. It was like my entire world was revolving around his addiction.
And I had nobody to talk to about any of it.
HOPE
I am here to help you.
It took me years to find the answers to my concerns. And I found them in life coaching. I finally found the practical tools I had been looking for! The answers to my question of HOW I was supposed to get over his addiction, HOW I was supposed to enjoy our sex life again, HOW I was to process all the rejection and pain, and HOW to overcome the distrust I was feeling! ALL of it was answered in life coaching.
And once I learned it, I knew I had to share it with as many women as I could.
I certified as a life coach because I feel a great responsibility and passion for finding the women who are alone and silent. I am on a mission to go find the girl I used to be and teach her everything I know. It is my privilege to help some of the most vulnerable women and help them find hope and confidence.
I am your life coach.